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Lesbian & Bi Womens Events
Lesbian & Bi Women's Singles Events
The real-life alternative to Her and Lex — lesbian and bi women’s singles events across Australia
If you’ve seen every profile in your city twice, it might be time to log off. Merge’s lesbian and bi women’s events bring women together at a good venue for a relaxed night out — easy icebreakers, good company, and chemistry you can’t get through a screen.
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About Lesbian & Bi Women's Singles Events
Lesbian & Bi Women's Events — The In-Person Alternative to Her and Lex
Her and Lex were built for queer women. So was Merge Dating — just offline.
The problem with apps, for lesbian and bi women especially, is the pool. A relatively small dating pool, filtered through an algorithm, showing you the same profiles week after week. Conversations that sparkle online and fizzle in person. The exhaustion of performing a version of yourself through a bio and a photo set.
Merge creates a different kind of space. Every woman in the room is single, interested in meeting other women, and there because she chose to be. We pick venues that feel right — not loud bars, not function rooms. Just a good night out.
Hosts break the ice so nothing feels forced, then step back. Trans women welcome. Bi and queer women welcome. No script required — just show up and be yourself.
Merge is for lesbian and bi women who want to meet someone special — not just a swipe and a hookup. That’s the key difference from apps and the bar scene. Everyone in the room is looking for something real.
The Her & Lex Alternative
Offline, in-person, no algorithm. Every woman in the room is a queer single who chose to be there.
Women Meeting Women
Designed specifically for women who want to meet women — not a mixed event with a queer add-on.
Trans & Bi Inclusive
Trans women are women. Bi and queer women are welcome. Full stop.
Why Choose Merge for Lesbian & Bi Women's Singles Events?
- Same Pool, Different Setting Her and Lex are digital pools. Merge is the same community, in person — which changes everything. Chemistry through a phone screen is one thing. Chemistry in a room is something else entirely. That's why Merge exists.
- A Room That Was Built for You Not a generic singles night with a LGBTQ+ checkbox. A dedicated lesbian and bi women's night, at a venue picked for the crowd, with hosts who know the room.
- A Room You Can Relax In Venues picked for the crowd, hosts who know the room, and a code of conduct we actually enforce. You can just relax and be yourself.
What Happens at a Merge Lesbian & Bi Women's Singles Events Event
From arrival to connection – here’s exactly what your evening looks like.
Arrive & Settle In
Doors open. Show your ticket, grab a drink, get comfortable. No rush – take your time getting settled in.
Mingle, Drink, Connect
The room fills up naturally. Jump into conversation, find a spot at the bar, or let someone come to you. No structure, no pressure.
Icebreakers
Your host gets everyone involved with light, easy icebreakers – fun rather than cringe – transforming the energy and creating a great social environment.
The Evening is Yours
For the next couple of hours, the floor is yours. Keep conversations going, start new ones, swap numbers when it feels right.
Wrap Up
The official event wraps up. Some people head off, some keep the night going nearby. Whatever happens next is entirely up to you.
What People Are Saying About Merge Dating
Don’t just take our word for it.
Other Merge Nights
Not quite your thing? Here’s what else we run.
Corporate Singles Events
After-work drinks, except everyone's single. For busy professionals with no time for the apps.
LGBTQ+ Singles Events
LGBTQ+ nights out, done properly. Good venue, good crowd, no profile required.
Under 35s
Your 20s and early 30s, minus the swiping. Good bars, good crowd, see where it goes.
35-50 Years
For people who know what they want — and don't want to spend six weeks texting to find out.
50+ Singles
Great venues, good conversation, and a crowd at the same stage of life as you.
50+ Singles
It's never too late for a new beginning. Sophisticated events with a community that gets it.
Corporate Singles Events
After-work drinks, except everyone's single. For busy professionals with no time for the apps.
LGBTQ+ Singles Events
LGBTQ+ nights out, done properly. Good venue, good crowd, no profile required.
Under 35s
Your 20s and early 30s, minus the swiping. Good bars, good crowd, see where it goes.
35-50 Years
For people who know what they want — and don't want to spend six weeks texting to find out.
50+ Singles
Great venues, good conversation, and a crowd at the same stage of life as you.
50+ Singles
It's never too late for a new beginning. Sophisticated events with a community that gets it.
Frequently Asked Questions
Is this a Her or Lex alternative?
Yes. Merge is the in-person alternative to Her, Lex, and other queer women's dating apps — for those who'd rather meet someone face to face than through a screen.
Are bi women welcome?
Absolutely. Events are open to any woman interested in meeting other women — lesbian, bisexual, queer, and questioning.
Are trans women welcome?
Yes. Trans women are women and are completely welcome.
What if I've never been to a singles event before?
Most first-timers are surprised by how natural it feels. Our hosts are good at reading the room and making sure no one feels out of place.
Where are lesbian and bi women's events held?
Venue details are on each event listing — check mergedating.com.au/events for what's coming up near you.
Do you also run gay and bi men's and LGBTQ+ events?
Yes — alongside lesbian and bi women's events, we run gay and bi men's nights and inclusive LGBTQ+ events for the whole community.
"I'd been on Grindr for three years and met exactly no one worth dating. Came to one Merge event on a whim — met my boyfriend that same night. Still together eight months later."
Marcus