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Lesbian & Bi Womens Events
Lesbian & Bi Women's Singles Events
She had potential. Lex was interesting. But you’ve been on both long enough to know that swiping through the same pool of profiles in your city isn’t the same as actually meeting someone. Merge Dating’s lesbian and bi women’s events exist for exactly this moment — when you’re ready to put the apps down and walk into a room.
Lesbian & Bi Women's - Upcoming Events
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Newtown Lesbian & Bi-Women Singles Event | Stonewall | Saturday 29th August
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Brisbane | Lesbian & Bi-Women Singles Event | Hello Gorgeous | Friday 11th September
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Canberra | Lesbian & Bi-Women Singles Event | Manuka | Thursday 17th September
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Glebe Lesbian & Bi-Women Singles Mixer | Nag’s Head | Friday 25th September
About Lesbian & Bi Women's Singles Events
Lesbian & Bi Women's Events — The In-Person Alternative to Her and Lex
Her and Lex were built for queer women. So was Merge Dating — just offline.
The problem with apps, for lesbian and bi women especially, is the pool. A relatively small dating pool, filtered through an algorithm, showing you the same profiles week after week. Conversations that sparkle online and fizzle in person. The exhaustion of performing a version of yourself through a bio and a photo set.
Merge creates a different kind of space. Every woman in the room is single, interested in meeting other women, and there because she chose to be. Our events are held at venues that feel genuinely comfortable — not loud bars, not clinical function rooms. Just a great evening in a space chosen for you.
Hosts break the ice so nothing feels forced, then step back. Trans women welcome. Bi and queer women welcome. No script required — just show up and be yourself.
Merge is for lesbian and bi women who want to meet someone special — not just a swipe and a hookup. That’s the key difference from apps and the bar scene. Everyone in the room is genuinely looking for something real. Events across Sydney, Brisbane, Melbourne, Canberra, and more.
The Her & Lex Alternative
Offline, in-person, no algorithm. Every woman in the room is a queer single who chose to be there.
Intentional Space
Designed specifically for women who want to meet women — not a mixed event with a queer add-on.
Trans & Bi Inclusive
Trans women are women. Bi and queer women are welcome. Full stop.
Why Choose Merge for Lesbian & Bi Women's Events?
- Same Pool, Different Setting Her and Lex are digital pools. Merge is the same community, in person — which changes everything. Chemistry through a phone screen is one thing. Chemistry in a room is something else entirely. That's why Merge exists.
- A Room That Was Built for You Not a generic singles night with a LGBTQ+ checkbox. A dedicated lesbian and bi women's event, at a venue chosen for its inclusivity, with hosts who understand the room they're working with.
- Safe, Respected, Enforced Careful venue selection, briefed hosts, and a code of conduct we take seriously. You can be fully yourself — no performance, no explanation, no second-guessing whether the environment is actually safe.
What Happen at a Merge 50+ Singles Event
From arrival to connection – here’s exactly what your evening looks like.
Arrive & Settle In
Doors open. Show your ticket, grab a drink, get comfortable. No rush – take your time getting settled in.
Mingle, Drink, Connect
The room fills up naturally. Jump into conversation, find a spot at the bar, or let someone come to you. No structure, no pressure.
Icebreakers
Your host gets everyone involved with light, easy icebreakers – fun rather than cringe – transforming the energy and creating a great social environment.
The Evening is Yours
For the next couple of hours, the floor is yours. Keep conversations going, start new ones, swap numbers when it feels right.
Wrap Up
The official event wraps up. Some people head off, some keep the night going nearby. Whatever happens next is entirely up to you.
What People Are Saying About Merge Dating
Hear from real people who’ve swapped the apps for a Merge night out.
Merge Singles Events - Something for Everyone
Merge runs Christian singles events alongside age brackets, cultural communities, and LGBTQ+ nights.
Christian Singles Events
Meet singles who share your values in a warm, welcoming space built for genuine connection.
Corporate Singles Events
Tailored for busy professionals — meet driven, career-minded singles after hours.
LGBTQ+ Singles Events
Inclusive, vibrant events designed specifically for the LGBTQ+ community to meet, celebrate, and find love.
Under 35s
Energy-filled mixers for Gen Z and Millennial singles looking for a real spark.
35 – 50 Years
The perfect balance of fun and maturity. Meet established singles ready for real conversation.
50+ Singles
It's never too late for a new beginning. Sophisticated events with a community that gets it.
Christian Singles Events
Meet singles who share your values in a warm, welcoming space built for genuine connection.
Corporate Singles Events
Tailored for busy professionals — meet driven, career-minded singles after hours.
LGBTQ+ Singles Events
Inclusive, vibrant events designed specifically for the LGBTQ+ community to meet, celebrate, and find love.
Under 35s
Energy-filled mixers for Gen Z and Millennial singles looking for a real spark.
35 – 50 Years
The perfect balance of fun and maturity. Meet established singles ready for real conversation.
50+ Singles
It's never too late for a new beginning. Sophisticated events with a community that gets it.
Frequently Asked Questions
Is this a Her or Lex alternative?
Yes. Merge is the in-person alternative to Her, Lex, and other queer women's dating apps — for those who'd rather meet someone face to face than through a screen.
Are bi women welcome?
Absolutely. Events are open to any woman interested in meeting other women — lesbian, bisexual, queer, and questioning.
Are trans women welcome?
Yes. Trans women are women and are completely welcome.
What if I've never been to a singles event before?
Most first-timers are genuinely surprised by how natural it feels. Our hosts are good at reading the room and making sure no one feels out of place.
Where are lesbian and bi women's events held?
Across Sydney, Brisbane, Melbourne, Canberra, and more. Check mergedating.com.au/events.
Do you also run gay and bi men's and LGBTQ+ events?
Yes — alongside lesbian and bi women's events, we run gay and bi men's nights and inclusive LGBTQ+ events for the whole community.
"I'd been on Grindr for three years and met exactly no one worth dating. Came to one Merge event on a whim — met my boyfriend that same night. Still together eight months later."
Marcus